No, NO, it's cool! [he LOVES it. this is exactly the kind of discussion he's been wanting to have since day one] I get where you're coming from. Society just --- it builds up all these expectations for us, no matter where we're from. Even if you're from some different universe, there's still the constant of being told even before you're outta diapers, what you oughta do with your life, how you're supposed to feel, what's good, what's bad, what's normal, what's weird. Boys shouldn't play with dolls, girls shouldn't want to take apart trucks, nobody should wanna do something for the simple reason of "because I can".

I mean ... as far as I figure? If it's not hurtin' anyone else? What's the big deal? Do what makes you happy!